Deciding to sell or not to sell can be a very emotional process. Divorce and moving can be stressful and traumatic. The types of emotions that accompany divorce can range from anger, sadness, and fear, to relief, anticipation and excitement about new beginnings and what’s to come.
How do you fully experience and honor your emotions, while at the same time keep them from sabotaging an important financial decision that may affect you and your family for years to come?
That’s where we come in. Experienced, trained and certified, we are experts at handling the roller coaster of emotions that come with both divorce and/or moving. Strong emotions can lead to erratic behavior. You can easily sabotage yourself and your financial well being, without even realizing it. Big feelings such as anger or fear can cause us to lash out and do impetuous things, which can affect our lives in monumental ways. Our job is to help handle your emotions is a constructive, productive, and healthy way, so that you will be better able to address the important decisions that will need to be made throughout the process of your divorce. If not handled properly, emotions can negatively impact your financial security and financial future. We want to help educate and protect you in the best way possible.
Our emotions can override our rational brain. When faced with trauma, danger, or extreme stress, our survival system takes over, and we find ourselves in the “fight, flight or freeze” response. The last thing you want to do is make life altering, long-term decisions from this state. We are trained to shift your thinking, guiding you out of the overwhelm and chaos, to a place of calm, with lots of well-thought out and researched options, that will be in the best interest of you, and your children.
Never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.